Blog #3: what others think..

Blog #3 care about thoughts

I think it is difficult for humans to not care what others think because of the fact that humans are a highly social group, and I think it is part of our instinct to be liked by others. Humans are highly social, as I stated, and that we are drawn to be liked by other people, as this makes us feel safer when in a group of people you trust. However when a human is not liked, they get a feeling that something is not right with them, and this leads to contempt in themselves. Not caring about others and their thoughts on you is near impossible, because, try as we might, we constantly are saying that they do not care what they think, and that only consumes us in thought and we will constantly make that reassurance when we see the person. Now for the next question, I think we control what other people see and think slightly, but most is from the other person. I say this because we can make a good first impression or impress them for the hour, but in the end it their thoughts that decide. Humans make judgmental conclusions sometimes, this could be from dress to attitude, but once that judgment has been made it can be hard to prove them wrong. And we can influence their opinions from there by our actions, but from first look we usually make inferences on how they are behaving and why.